[Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Tags: Declan Ó Móráin Effie Finnigan February 2010 Declan and Effie Read 244 times / 0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic. [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie on June 07, 2013, 09:17:52 AM Declan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandEffie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft & WizardryScotlandFebruary 1, 2010Dear Miss Finnigan,I wanted to send you a short note thanking you for your support in my decision to leave Hogwarts and return home after discovering that my son was diagnosed with Dragon Pox. I have settled in at home again, and Iggy is currently at St. Mungo's. They say the case of dragon pox is not particularly serious (at least, it is not life threatening) but the poor boy is (obviously) quite miserable. I have been spending as much time at Mungo's as I can, but the disease is incredibly contagious and he is, more or less, under quarantine. I am certain all of the professors at Hogwarts understand my reasons to leave again, though I must admit I feel guilty about it. I was so excited to return to the school- I really adore teaching, but with a young son I need an occupation which allows me to be there for him as he needs me. Hogwarts cannot offer that, so I must hang up my teaching cap until such time as I have that freedom.I do hope that your first year of instruction goes well, and that you are still enjoying your new position at the school. It can be difficult to settle into the routine and gain control of the students, but I believe you will be fully capable. I have heard good things about you whispered in the hallways! -Declan Ó Móráin Skip to next post Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #1 on June 07, 2013, 06:53:11 PM Effie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft and WizardryScotlandDeclan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandDeclan -I was absolutely chuffed to get your owl today! I'd been wondering after little Iggy but I didn't want to overstep any personal boundaries. I'm so very very glad that he's doing a little better. I know it can't have been an easy choice, but your commitment to him is nothing if not admirable. I've enclosed a little package for you to take him, I thought maybe Mungo's might not seem so lonely if he had a little friend. I was torn between the Penguin[1] and this very impressive Dinosaur. Things here are plugging along about as well as can be expected. Love is in the air and all of that nonsense with Valentine's Day just around the corner. Lessons are going well. I worry about some more than others, but the ones who really seem to want to learn have a way of finding what they need. It is a change, teaching so many of them at once, but it isn't a bad change. It's good to have something to put all my energy into. Everything still feels new and fresh, but every day it gets a little easier to manage the rowdy ones, and to draw out the quiet ones.Figaro Sellaphix might be the death of me, but I'm rather fond of the little blighter.Next time I'm in the village we should grab a cuppa and exchange war stories, or if Iggy's better by then take another stab at a trip to Honeydukes.Best Regards, Effie Finnigan 1. click Skip to next post Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #2 on June 07, 2013, 08:45:15 PM Declan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandEffie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft & WizardryScotlandFebruary 2, 2010Miss Finnigan,I appreciate your concern or personal boundaries- it is a trait so few people seem to possess these days. Though I assure you that asking after my son would not offend me. You've met the small boy and we've had many a conversation about his antics. He asks after the nice candy-lady once in a while, he remembers you quite vividly, which surprises me. Ignatius often takes a long time to take a liking to a person, he is not very good with strangers. Though I have been trying harder to get him better socialized, it does not always pay of. It is incredibly thoughtful of you to send along the gift for him! I took it to him this morning when I went to visit him at Mungo's. He clung to the thing and started babbling at it. He's named it Candy-Bird because I told him the Candy-Lady sent it to him. Ignatius proudly proclaimed it would be his new best friend forever and ever. As I've checked in throughout the day he has had the bird by his side each and every time. It amazes me still how the smallest things can improve a child's mood and how easy they can be to please. Fortunately for me, my lesson was an elective and I only had to worry about students with an interest or aptitude in the subject. I could not imagine instructing a basic class and being saddled with students of various talent levels because of it. I have heard many a horror story about the poor wand skills of the younger years. (And as for Sellaphix, you can keep him. Someone needs to make something more of him. He responds well to structure, I've noticed.)I would very much like to get together next time you are in the village. If Iggy is better he would be very happy to see you. I admit that I would be glad to see you as well. It gets a bit lonely in this cottage without him hear. The nanny has been staying with him at the hospital so that I can be sure to keep an eye on things at home and wrap up loose ends with Hogwarts and reach out for information on new career opportunities. The next Hogsmeade weekend is on Valentine's. I would never be so presumptuous as to expect our company on such a dreadful holiday, but if you need an escape from the pink streets and cheeky cupids, my door is open to you.-Declan Ó Móráin Skip to next post Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #3 on June 07, 2013, 09:19:47 PM Effie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft and WizardryScotlandDeclan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandDeclan -What can I say? I've got a magic touch. When my brother and his wife divorced I was about the only thing that could get Poppy to calm down. I think it's probably because I'm less threatening than adults. After all, I'm nearly their size! You're going to have your hands full with that one Mister Ó Móráin; but love every crazy minute of it. Before you blink suddenly they're fourteen and think they know absolutely everything and you want to wring their little necks. At least that's how it's been with Poppy. I still don't think she's forgiven me for taking this job. I went from "cool Aunt Effie" to a dire embarrassment for having the same last name. I'm so glad he liked it! The name is lovely too, though you both really should start calling me Effie. If we're going to be proper friends I probably need a proper name... though Candy-Lady has a rather sweet ring to it. Oooh did I really just write that pun down? I did. See, this is what you'll be subjected to as my friends. Horrible, horrible puns and stories about my niece - if I'm lucky maybe it made you smile for a minute. If I'm not lucky I wager I may never hear from you again.The most important thing to remember when teaching children is the fact we were all terrible once. No one is just born knowing, and with the right amount of encouragement and dedication no one is really unteachable. I like Fig, really I do, he brings a strange sort of energy to the room. If he could tap into that I think he'd be able to give a few Ravens a run for their sickles. I would never tell him that though, the last thing that boy needs is a reason to be cocky. There are a few others that really stand out already but I'm also still getting to know them all. Sometimes it's the quiet ones who surprise you the most. Have you got a line out on anything you'd like to be doing? If you're still in Hogsmeade I don't imagine you've gone back tot he Ministry? I'm sure whatever you decide to do you'll be brilliant. Why Declan Ó Móráin! Did you just almost ask me out for Valentine's Day? How scandalous. Are you sure you wouldn't rather turn my glasses into a tortoise again? I'd love to get together Hogsmeade weekend. I may have a friend bringing his children in for a visit one day, but I haven't any really solid plans. Someone suggested the speed dating, but I just have this horrible image of getting matched up with one of the students and I'd simply die. They already tower over me!We could do dinner? Maybe invite another professor or two? I'd even cook! I dearly miss having my own kitchen. It just isn't the same at the Castle, with all the elves underfoot, fussing about how I whisk my eggs. Think it over!Talk Soon, Effie Finnigan Skip to next post Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #4 on June 07, 2013, 10:49:56 PM Declan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandEffie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft & WizardryScotlandFebruary 2, 2010Dear Effie, Your pun is not horrible. I rather enjoy puns, actually. Then again, my sense of humor has never really been what it ought to be. I was taught many things as a child, but (as I am sure you remember) having an appropriate sense of humor was not one of them. Please, feel free to be as punny as you like and I will do my very best to continue being amused, even long after the jokes run dry. That is only the polite thing to do, after all.I wouldn't say we were all terrible. I know that I certainly had my moments, and though I know every person has a choice, I chalk much of my horrendous behavior up to my upbringing. Family and parental guidance has a lot of impact on a child, and I for one have learned from my childhood and hope not to make the same mistakes with Iggy that my parents made with me. Namely, I hope he does not turn the glasses of sweet Hufflepuff girls into tortoises and laugh about it. I still feel quite awful about being so terrible to you (and many others) when I was in school. I'm often ashamed of my past behavior. I have not gone back to the ministry, and I am not sure that I will. I prefer the quiet life in Hogsmeade and he ministry job- though enjoyable- was also demanding. It is hard to explain to one's superiors that you cannot complete progress on time important research for familial reasons. Dealing in potions makes brewing time very specific- especially in the area of research. The only solution I can come up with, to make my own hours, would be to go into business for myself. However, that is a big undertaking and would take a lot of time and preparation to get going. But in the long run, I suppose, it would pay off and I would have something to leave to my son when I eventually shuffle off this mortal coil. If you'd like to cook, I have a well stocked kitchen. I do my best to make use of it as often as I can, though I cannot comment on my skill level. Not many people sample my cooking other than myself and my son, and Iggy will eat almost anything. I do like the idea of inviting another professor or two. I shall send out a couple of owls and see if anyone else would enjoy or be willing to join us and get back to you on that. It sounds a much better way to spend the evening than at the speed dating event. Though I do not want to keep you from any other plans you might have made for the evening. If a better offer comes along, please feel free to take it. It would not surprise me if some eligible young bachelor tried to sweep you off of your feet in the name of Cupid.-Declan O Morain Skip to next post Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #5 on June 08, 2013, 05:12:48 AM Effie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft and WizardryScotlandDeclan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandFebruary 2nd, 2010Declan -I think your sense of humor is just fine and even though I will never stop teasing you for it, looking back the tortoise trick was rather brilliant on your part. Speaking strictly as a Transfiguration expert, it was pretty advanced magic for our age! I hardly think you need to worry too much about Iggy. Deep down you were never really so bad... alright maybe you were but you grew up into a lovely intelligent wizard I am quite happy to call a friend. So, rest assured you're terrific, I couldn't stomach being friends with a blockhead! If there's anything I can do to help let me know, job hunts are kind of my forte. If all else fails I know I have some former clients who needed more help in Magical Beast care. I have a friend who breeds crups actually and she's always looking for someone to help her deliver. You'd be good at that I think, or really anything you put your mind to I'm sure. Also I might look for any chance to come steal Iggy away for a few hours to give you some peace, once he's home of course.I'll start planning the menu straight off! My brother is the real chef in the family but I've picked up my fair share of tricks. There were so many of us growing up my Mam always needed help minding the burners. I'm actually using dinner with you as a brilliant excuse to keep my brother from trying to set me up on a blind date for Valentines day. You'd think after a divorce and single fatherhood he'd been less keen to try and march me down the aisle. In some respects he's worse than my mother about wanting me to settle down with a nice wizard and give him nieces and nephews to spoil. Obviously my brother's biological clock is ticking far more loudly than mine.Talk Soon, Effie Finnigan Skip to next post Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #6 on June 08, 2013, 10:48:33 PM Declan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandEffie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft & WizardryScotlandFebruary 3, 2010Dear Effie,I don't think anybody has ever paid me so many compliments all at once without expecting something in return. Pureblood politics really are a funny thing. It makes me realize how much I missed out on due to my upbringing versus being a regular wizard forging standard friendships instead of useful future connections. You certainly have grown up to become a very ovely witch yourself, and are obviously intelligent, talented, and very good at what you do. You will be an excellent educator, I have no doubt about it. Perhaps one day you might even teach my little Iggy how to use his wand.I am certain I will find something. It may seem silly, but I have contemplated the possibility of perhaps running my own shop in Hogsmeade. I would have something to leave to my son, then, a small legacy or what have you. It would also allow me to make my own hours and I will know that should Ignatius ever need his father, I can simply close up shop for a while. Though exactly what sort of business I'd be interested in opening is beyond my grasp of yet. I thought perhaps a small potions shop- Hogsmeade is dreadfully devoid of one- but I am not certain as of yet. Potions has always been my true passion, after all, and having my own shop would also afford me the chance to dabble in my own creations on the side.I'll send off an owl to Tapendra later on to invite him. It is actually quite hilarious that I count him among my friends. When I first came to staff on Hogwarts I detested the man... I was set in my ways, I suppose. But after gaining custody of Ignatius, Tapendra became a great person to rely on to help me figure out what to do with the child. I'm afraid paternal instinct does not come as naturally to me as I should like. His nanny has taught me a great deal, as well. I have faith that one day I will figure it all out, though. I am lucky that he is, at least, old enough to communicate his wants and needs to me. Had he been sent to live with me before he could talk I believe I'd have been put away by no. Don't rush marriage or children. I am certain you have already figured that out, but there is a lot to be said for a life without that responsibility. But family is always trying to marry off single women. They labor under the false pretense that a woman cannot be complete without a man in her life. I grew up seeing it. My sister talked of getting married as soon as she could string sentences together. And my family expected her to get married as quickly as possible. Though I'm sure that way of life works for some, it is not for everyone, and you should never let someone talk you into something you don't want to do. But you are a strong, independent person and I have faith you won't be pushed into a relationship with someone you dislike. What sort of things are you planning for the menu? You'll need to send me a list of what to buy from the grocer.-Declan O Morain Skip to next post Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #7 on June 13, 2013, 05:27:56 AM Effie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft and WizardryScotlandDeclan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandFebruary 4th, 2010Declan -I don't think a shop in Hogsmeade sounds silly at all. They are very much lacking that resource and it would keep you close to home while Iggy is still on the mend. It's a brilliant idea really; and it would let you do something you both love and are good at. That, in and of itself, is a very rare gift for the universe to offer up. If there is any way I can possibly help let me know! I'm very good at finding (hur hur, Hufflepuff jokes). I think you're doing a brilliant job with Iggy, honestly. Growing up I thought my parents had just known what to do with all of us, but it was more than they sorted out most of the kinks before Ronan and I were old enough to remember! There is one story of my very lovely father using me in Diagon and finding me napping in a pen full of crups. Cutest lost baby story ever I imagine, but Mam still gave him hell for years. Parenting is a bit like Potions making I think, you can do all the reading you want beforehand and follow the guides but a lot of it is all about alchemy, the coming together of pieces and ingredients with time and love. I'm so sappy sometimes! Fear not, I have no intention of heading down the aisle any time soon, bullied or otherwise. I rather like being in charge of just myself and belong just to me. I also like being an Auntie. I get to wind them up and give them back at the end of the night. I never have to think twice about a nice glass of wine before bed, and if they inadvertently turn out to be dreadful monsters rather than productive members of society it won't ever be my fault. All of which sound very selfish and are further proof that I am in no way ready to be married or mother anyone. As for the menu, I thought I might be a little adventurous and whip up a little Chicken Biriyani, with Sweet Curry Squash on the side. Of course if you're not a big fan of spices I can make just about anything. My Bolognese is pretty spectacular, if you wanted something more Italian? I've absolutely no idea what normal people eat. I've been cooking for one too long!Talk Soon, Effie Finnigan Skip to next post Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #8 on June 14, 2013, 12:48:03 PM Declan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandEffie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft & WizardryScotlandFebruary 5, 2010Effie,I am glad that you don't think it silly. I have been looking into some of the vacant shops. I was thinking of leasing out the upper floor of a building to a tenant, as well, since I have my own home here in Hogsmeade. Although I might also make it a sort of playroom for Iggy for when he gets older. It is all too soon to say, really. I suppose I shall make more of a decision if the right type of building for the right price opens up. I already have connections to apothecaries from when I was younger thanks to the family business and thanks to my short stint at the ministry working in potions research. Perhaps one weekend I could lure you out to Hogsmeade to aid me in looking at Real Estate?I do not know that I'd say I am doing a brilliant job with Iggy. But I am certainly doing my very best. And your analogy of parenting to potions is actually quite accurate. As far as lost baby stories, when I was very young I once wondered my way into a dragon's nest on the farm. That was apparently quite terrifying for both of my parents. (Though I suppose it was well deserved considering their illegal breeding practices. Dragons are terrifying and dangerous creatures after all.)It is quite alright to be a bit sappy. I get that way as well. Granted, I do not have much to be sappy about, but I often wonder how life would be if I hadn't lost my family... But then I remember I'd likely be married to some stodgy bird and be consumed with the family business and turning a profit. I suppose, in the long run, it all worked out quite well. So long as I have my health and my son is happy, then that is all I could really ask for. I often wish I had the luxury of getting Iggy wound up and handing him off... And even if I ever do become an uncle, I'll never get to see my niece or nephew. My sister is recently engaged, and I am sure she will be desperate to have children as soon as possible. But I am a smirch upon the family name, so on, so forth... So they will never even know I exist, more than likely. Both of those sound quite delicious. I like the idea of something a bit adventurous, and curry squash sounds spectacular. After you've settled on a menu, please send me a list of things you will need. I want to make sure my kitchen is appropriately stocked. If you need any help in the kitchen, I don't mind lending a hand. Cooking is quite similar to potions, and now that I am a full time father I have been cooking regularly to make sure Iggy eats well. Of course I am certain whatever you create would be a thousand times better than anything I could ever manage. Perhaps, if you are free early on that day you could go with me to visit Ignatius at St. Mungo's? He keeps asking after you since you've sent along the lovely little animal. I would hate to expose you, or put you in harm's way against your will. But they have ways to prevent the spread of dragon pox so long as protocol is adhered to.-Declan Skip to next post
[Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie on June 07, 2013, 09:17:52 AM Declan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandEffie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft & WizardryScotlandFebruary 1, 2010Dear Miss Finnigan,I wanted to send you a short note thanking you for your support in my decision to leave Hogwarts and return home after discovering that my son was diagnosed with Dragon Pox. I have settled in at home again, and Iggy is currently at St. Mungo's. They say the case of dragon pox is not particularly serious (at least, it is not life threatening) but the poor boy is (obviously) quite miserable. I have been spending as much time at Mungo's as I can, but the disease is incredibly contagious and he is, more or less, under quarantine. I am certain all of the professors at Hogwarts understand my reasons to leave again, though I must admit I feel guilty about it. I was so excited to return to the school- I really adore teaching, but with a young son I need an occupation which allows me to be there for him as he needs me. Hogwarts cannot offer that, so I must hang up my teaching cap until such time as I have that freedom.I do hope that your first year of instruction goes well, and that you are still enjoying your new position at the school. It can be difficult to settle into the routine and gain control of the students, but I believe you will be fully capable. I have heard good things about you whispered in the hallways! -Declan Ó Móráin Skip to next post
Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #1 on June 07, 2013, 06:53:11 PM Effie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft and WizardryScotlandDeclan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandDeclan -I was absolutely chuffed to get your owl today! I'd been wondering after little Iggy but I didn't want to overstep any personal boundaries. I'm so very very glad that he's doing a little better. I know it can't have been an easy choice, but your commitment to him is nothing if not admirable. I've enclosed a little package for you to take him, I thought maybe Mungo's might not seem so lonely if he had a little friend. I was torn between the Penguin[1] and this very impressive Dinosaur. Things here are plugging along about as well as can be expected. Love is in the air and all of that nonsense with Valentine's Day just around the corner. Lessons are going well. I worry about some more than others, but the ones who really seem to want to learn have a way of finding what they need. It is a change, teaching so many of them at once, but it isn't a bad change. It's good to have something to put all my energy into. Everything still feels new and fresh, but every day it gets a little easier to manage the rowdy ones, and to draw out the quiet ones.Figaro Sellaphix might be the death of me, but I'm rather fond of the little blighter.Next time I'm in the village we should grab a cuppa and exchange war stories, or if Iggy's better by then take another stab at a trip to Honeydukes.Best Regards, Effie Finnigan 1. click Skip to next post
Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #2 on June 07, 2013, 08:45:15 PM Declan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandEffie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft & WizardryScotlandFebruary 2, 2010Miss Finnigan,I appreciate your concern or personal boundaries- it is a trait so few people seem to possess these days. Though I assure you that asking after my son would not offend me. You've met the small boy and we've had many a conversation about his antics. He asks after the nice candy-lady once in a while, he remembers you quite vividly, which surprises me. Ignatius often takes a long time to take a liking to a person, he is not very good with strangers. Though I have been trying harder to get him better socialized, it does not always pay of. It is incredibly thoughtful of you to send along the gift for him! I took it to him this morning when I went to visit him at Mungo's. He clung to the thing and started babbling at it. He's named it Candy-Bird because I told him the Candy-Lady sent it to him. Ignatius proudly proclaimed it would be his new best friend forever and ever. As I've checked in throughout the day he has had the bird by his side each and every time. It amazes me still how the smallest things can improve a child's mood and how easy they can be to please. Fortunately for me, my lesson was an elective and I only had to worry about students with an interest or aptitude in the subject. I could not imagine instructing a basic class and being saddled with students of various talent levels because of it. I have heard many a horror story about the poor wand skills of the younger years. (And as for Sellaphix, you can keep him. Someone needs to make something more of him. He responds well to structure, I've noticed.)I would very much like to get together next time you are in the village. If Iggy is better he would be very happy to see you. I admit that I would be glad to see you as well. It gets a bit lonely in this cottage without him hear. The nanny has been staying with him at the hospital so that I can be sure to keep an eye on things at home and wrap up loose ends with Hogwarts and reach out for information on new career opportunities. The next Hogsmeade weekend is on Valentine's. I would never be so presumptuous as to expect our company on such a dreadful holiday, but if you need an escape from the pink streets and cheeky cupids, my door is open to you.-Declan Ó Móráin Skip to next post
Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #3 on June 07, 2013, 09:19:47 PM Effie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft and WizardryScotlandDeclan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandDeclan -What can I say? I've got a magic touch. When my brother and his wife divorced I was about the only thing that could get Poppy to calm down. I think it's probably because I'm less threatening than adults. After all, I'm nearly their size! You're going to have your hands full with that one Mister Ó Móráin; but love every crazy minute of it. Before you blink suddenly they're fourteen and think they know absolutely everything and you want to wring their little necks. At least that's how it's been with Poppy. I still don't think she's forgiven me for taking this job. I went from "cool Aunt Effie" to a dire embarrassment for having the same last name. I'm so glad he liked it! The name is lovely too, though you both really should start calling me Effie. If we're going to be proper friends I probably need a proper name... though Candy-Lady has a rather sweet ring to it. Oooh did I really just write that pun down? I did. See, this is what you'll be subjected to as my friends. Horrible, horrible puns and stories about my niece - if I'm lucky maybe it made you smile for a minute. If I'm not lucky I wager I may never hear from you again.The most important thing to remember when teaching children is the fact we were all terrible once. No one is just born knowing, and with the right amount of encouragement and dedication no one is really unteachable. I like Fig, really I do, he brings a strange sort of energy to the room. If he could tap into that I think he'd be able to give a few Ravens a run for their sickles. I would never tell him that though, the last thing that boy needs is a reason to be cocky. There are a few others that really stand out already but I'm also still getting to know them all. Sometimes it's the quiet ones who surprise you the most. Have you got a line out on anything you'd like to be doing? If you're still in Hogsmeade I don't imagine you've gone back tot he Ministry? I'm sure whatever you decide to do you'll be brilliant. Why Declan Ó Móráin! Did you just almost ask me out for Valentine's Day? How scandalous. Are you sure you wouldn't rather turn my glasses into a tortoise again? I'd love to get together Hogsmeade weekend. I may have a friend bringing his children in for a visit one day, but I haven't any really solid plans. Someone suggested the speed dating, but I just have this horrible image of getting matched up with one of the students and I'd simply die. They already tower over me!We could do dinner? Maybe invite another professor or two? I'd even cook! I dearly miss having my own kitchen. It just isn't the same at the Castle, with all the elves underfoot, fussing about how I whisk my eggs. Think it over!Talk Soon, Effie Finnigan Skip to next post
Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #4 on June 07, 2013, 10:49:56 PM Declan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandEffie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft & WizardryScotlandFebruary 2, 2010Dear Effie, Your pun is not horrible. I rather enjoy puns, actually. Then again, my sense of humor has never really been what it ought to be. I was taught many things as a child, but (as I am sure you remember) having an appropriate sense of humor was not one of them. Please, feel free to be as punny as you like and I will do my very best to continue being amused, even long after the jokes run dry. That is only the polite thing to do, after all.I wouldn't say we were all terrible. I know that I certainly had my moments, and though I know every person has a choice, I chalk much of my horrendous behavior up to my upbringing. Family and parental guidance has a lot of impact on a child, and I for one have learned from my childhood and hope not to make the same mistakes with Iggy that my parents made with me. Namely, I hope he does not turn the glasses of sweet Hufflepuff girls into tortoises and laugh about it. I still feel quite awful about being so terrible to you (and many others) when I was in school. I'm often ashamed of my past behavior. I have not gone back to the ministry, and I am not sure that I will. I prefer the quiet life in Hogsmeade and he ministry job- though enjoyable- was also demanding. It is hard to explain to one's superiors that you cannot complete progress on time important research for familial reasons. Dealing in potions makes brewing time very specific- especially in the area of research. The only solution I can come up with, to make my own hours, would be to go into business for myself. However, that is a big undertaking and would take a lot of time and preparation to get going. But in the long run, I suppose, it would pay off and I would have something to leave to my son when I eventually shuffle off this mortal coil. If you'd like to cook, I have a well stocked kitchen. I do my best to make use of it as often as I can, though I cannot comment on my skill level. Not many people sample my cooking other than myself and my son, and Iggy will eat almost anything. I do like the idea of inviting another professor or two. I shall send out a couple of owls and see if anyone else would enjoy or be willing to join us and get back to you on that. It sounds a much better way to spend the evening than at the speed dating event. Though I do not want to keep you from any other plans you might have made for the evening. If a better offer comes along, please feel free to take it. It would not surprise me if some eligible young bachelor tried to sweep you off of your feet in the name of Cupid.-Declan O Morain Skip to next post
Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #5 on June 08, 2013, 05:12:48 AM Effie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft and WizardryScotlandDeclan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandFebruary 2nd, 2010Declan -I think your sense of humor is just fine and even though I will never stop teasing you for it, looking back the tortoise trick was rather brilliant on your part. Speaking strictly as a Transfiguration expert, it was pretty advanced magic for our age! I hardly think you need to worry too much about Iggy. Deep down you were never really so bad... alright maybe you were but you grew up into a lovely intelligent wizard I am quite happy to call a friend. So, rest assured you're terrific, I couldn't stomach being friends with a blockhead! If there's anything I can do to help let me know, job hunts are kind of my forte. If all else fails I know I have some former clients who needed more help in Magical Beast care. I have a friend who breeds crups actually and she's always looking for someone to help her deliver. You'd be good at that I think, or really anything you put your mind to I'm sure. Also I might look for any chance to come steal Iggy away for a few hours to give you some peace, once he's home of course.I'll start planning the menu straight off! My brother is the real chef in the family but I've picked up my fair share of tricks. There were so many of us growing up my Mam always needed help minding the burners. I'm actually using dinner with you as a brilliant excuse to keep my brother from trying to set me up on a blind date for Valentines day. You'd think after a divorce and single fatherhood he'd been less keen to try and march me down the aisle. In some respects he's worse than my mother about wanting me to settle down with a nice wizard and give him nieces and nephews to spoil. Obviously my brother's biological clock is ticking far more loudly than mine.Talk Soon, Effie Finnigan Skip to next post
Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #6 on June 08, 2013, 10:48:33 PM Declan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandEffie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft & WizardryScotlandFebruary 3, 2010Dear Effie,I don't think anybody has ever paid me so many compliments all at once without expecting something in return. Pureblood politics really are a funny thing. It makes me realize how much I missed out on due to my upbringing versus being a regular wizard forging standard friendships instead of useful future connections. You certainly have grown up to become a very ovely witch yourself, and are obviously intelligent, talented, and very good at what you do. You will be an excellent educator, I have no doubt about it. Perhaps one day you might even teach my little Iggy how to use his wand.I am certain I will find something. It may seem silly, but I have contemplated the possibility of perhaps running my own shop in Hogsmeade. I would have something to leave to my son, then, a small legacy or what have you. It would also allow me to make my own hours and I will know that should Ignatius ever need his father, I can simply close up shop for a while. Though exactly what sort of business I'd be interested in opening is beyond my grasp of yet. I thought perhaps a small potions shop- Hogsmeade is dreadfully devoid of one- but I am not certain as of yet. Potions has always been my true passion, after all, and having my own shop would also afford me the chance to dabble in my own creations on the side.I'll send off an owl to Tapendra later on to invite him. It is actually quite hilarious that I count him among my friends. When I first came to staff on Hogwarts I detested the man... I was set in my ways, I suppose. But after gaining custody of Ignatius, Tapendra became a great person to rely on to help me figure out what to do with the child. I'm afraid paternal instinct does not come as naturally to me as I should like. His nanny has taught me a great deal, as well. I have faith that one day I will figure it all out, though. I am lucky that he is, at least, old enough to communicate his wants and needs to me. Had he been sent to live with me before he could talk I believe I'd have been put away by no. Don't rush marriage or children. I am certain you have already figured that out, but there is a lot to be said for a life without that responsibility. But family is always trying to marry off single women. They labor under the false pretense that a woman cannot be complete without a man in her life. I grew up seeing it. My sister talked of getting married as soon as she could string sentences together. And my family expected her to get married as quickly as possible. Though I'm sure that way of life works for some, it is not for everyone, and you should never let someone talk you into something you don't want to do. But you are a strong, independent person and I have faith you won't be pushed into a relationship with someone you dislike. What sort of things are you planning for the menu? You'll need to send me a list of what to buy from the grocer.-Declan O Morain Skip to next post
Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #7 on June 13, 2013, 05:27:56 AM Effie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft and WizardryScotlandDeclan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandFebruary 4th, 2010Declan -I don't think a shop in Hogsmeade sounds silly at all. They are very much lacking that resource and it would keep you close to home while Iggy is still on the mend. It's a brilliant idea really; and it would let you do something you both love and are good at. That, in and of itself, is a very rare gift for the universe to offer up. If there is any way I can possibly help let me know! I'm very good at finding (hur hur, Hufflepuff jokes). I think you're doing a brilliant job with Iggy, honestly. Growing up I thought my parents had just known what to do with all of us, but it was more than they sorted out most of the kinks before Ronan and I were old enough to remember! There is one story of my very lovely father using me in Diagon and finding me napping in a pen full of crups. Cutest lost baby story ever I imagine, but Mam still gave him hell for years. Parenting is a bit like Potions making I think, you can do all the reading you want beforehand and follow the guides but a lot of it is all about alchemy, the coming together of pieces and ingredients with time and love. I'm so sappy sometimes! Fear not, I have no intention of heading down the aisle any time soon, bullied or otherwise. I rather like being in charge of just myself and belong just to me. I also like being an Auntie. I get to wind them up and give them back at the end of the night. I never have to think twice about a nice glass of wine before bed, and if they inadvertently turn out to be dreadful monsters rather than productive members of society it won't ever be my fault. All of which sound very selfish and are further proof that I am in no way ready to be married or mother anyone. As for the menu, I thought I might be a little adventurous and whip up a little Chicken Biriyani, with Sweet Curry Squash on the side. Of course if you're not a big fan of spices I can make just about anything. My Bolognese is pretty spectacular, if you wanted something more Italian? I've absolutely no idea what normal people eat. I've been cooking for one too long!Talk Soon, Effie Finnigan Skip to next post
Re: [Feb. 1st - ??] The Good Ship Deffie Reply #8 on June 14, 2013, 12:48:03 PM Declan Ó MóráinHogsmeade, ScotlandEffie FinniganHogwarts School of Witchcraft & WizardryScotlandFebruary 5, 2010Effie,I am glad that you don't think it silly. I have been looking into some of the vacant shops. I was thinking of leasing out the upper floor of a building to a tenant, as well, since I have my own home here in Hogsmeade. Although I might also make it a sort of playroom for Iggy for when he gets older. It is all too soon to say, really. I suppose I shall make more of a decision if the right type of building for the right price opens up. I already have connections to apothecaries from when I was younger thanks to the family business and thanks to my short stint at the ministry working in potions research. Perhaps one weekend I could lure you out to Hogsmeade to aid me in looking at Real Estate?I do not know that I'd say I am doing a brilliant job with Iggy. But I am certainly doing my very best. And your analogy of parenting to potions is actually quite accurate. As far as lost baby stories, when I was very young I once wondered my way into a dragon's nest on the farm. That was apparently quite terrifying for both of my parents. (Though I suppose it was well deserved considering their illegal breeding practices. Dragons are terrifying and dangerous creatures after all.)It is quite alright to be a bit sappy. I get that way as well. Granted, I do not have much to be sappy about, but I often wonder how life would be if I hadn't lost my family... But then I remember I'd likely be married to some stodgy bird and be consumed with the family business and turning a profit. I suppose, in the long run, it all worked out quite well. So long as I have my health and my son is happy, then that is all I could really ask for. I often wish I had the luxury of getting Iggy wound up and handing him off... And even if I ever do become an uncle, I'll never get to see my niece or nephew. My sister is recently engaged, and I am sure she will be desperate to have children as soon as possible. But I am a smirch upon the family name, so on, so forth... So they will never even know I exist, more than likely. Both of those sound quite delicious. I like the idea of something a bit adventurous, and curry squash sounds spectacular. After you've settled on a menu, please send me a list of things you will need. I want to make sure my kitchen is appropriately stocked. If you need any help in the kitchen, I don't mind lending a hand. Cooking is quite similar to potions, and now that I am a full time father I have been cooking regularly to make sure Iggy eats well. Of course I am certain whatever you create would be a thousand times better than anything I could ever manage. Perhaps, if you are free early on that day you could go with me to visit Ignatius at St. Mungo's? He keeps asking after you since you've sent along the lovely little animal. I would hate to expose you, or put you in harm's way against your will. But they have ways to prevent the spread of dragon pox so long as protocol is adhered to.-Declan Skip to next post
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